Some people have operated in the spirit of offense for so long that they mistake their offense for righteousness. Like, if they feel offended you must have said/done something wrong, and they are justified in their mindset. The spirit of offense keeps this loop going until you basically cut off the window of heaven designed to bless you. You refuse to be corrected, you’re always right, everybody is wrong, every word has a tone, people talking down to you, blah, blah, blah. And the bosoms you supposed to be blessed from be blocked.
News you can use: just you offended don’t mean the other did something wrong or that you is right. Feelings have a way of misleading you.
When God delivered me from this mindset and bondage, I became free to the point that people who were DELIBERATELY trying to hurt/anger me could not. And on the off chance that somebody does get me in my feelings these days, I literally go away so I can process those feelings and confess my feelings to God. Cuz I have a right to feel how I feel. I am just choosing not to be ruled by it.
Give no place to the devil, and he gotta leave you alone. Be honest with God, and God will protect you and guard your heart. It is literally time to pull an Elsa and let it go, cuz the cold never bothered you anyway.
What you thought bothered you only bothered you because you had unrealistic expectations of others and they had unrealistic expectations of you.
Be free from the burden of offense.