You ever listen to somebody talk bad about somebody else, but in your mind you’re saying, “But THEY JUST LIKE YOU!!!”
That is why ya girl don’t talk about folks. Because Jesus said, “How you gone see the speck in their eye and Issa whole plank in yourns?” (Matthew 7:3, Kisha version). Lauryn Hill asked, “How you gone win when you ain’t right within?” We all saying the same thing: mind your own mess!
Stop talking about folks. Stop NOT reflecting on YOURSELF. God didn’t call you to talk about folks. God called you into His presence so He could change you and then people would be drawn to Him because you changed.